Some would say that to have a happy sex life, all a man needs is a penis and a willing partner with which to share it. (Some would also say, from another point of view, all a man needs is a penis and a hand with which to share it.) But many men prefer a little more variety in their sex lives; they have good penis health and want to take advantage of their favorite organ – and thus many men and/or couples enjoy exploring sex toys as an added “spice.” Some are perfectly happy with sticking with basics like a plain penis ring – but some may want to explore some more “advanced” sex toys.
Let’s take a look at some sex toys for more advanced male users.
- The grenade masturbator. Okay, a guy doesn’t necessarily have to be so advanced in using sex toys to make use of the grenade – but it’s so odd that it’s definitely not on most men’s list of first-time toy purchasers. The grenade is basically what it sounds like – a masturbating device shaped like a grenade. As with most masturbators, it’s made of a pliable material and designed for the erect penis to be stuck inside it. Sex is simulated until the man “explodes” rather than the grenade, by ejaculating.
- Nipple expanders. Although many men aren’t aware of it, the nipples can be an erogenous zone for men as well as women. (Indeed, nipple play is common among gay men.) Nipple expanders are essentially suction cups attached to the nipples to help them grow, both wider and longer. This in theory makes them even more sensitive to touch and more capable of delivering pleasurable feelings to a guy. Those who wish to explore this option should take it slow and gradually build up use over time. They should also discontinue if there are signs of discomfort.
- Male chastity devices. Popular among those who are more into the bondage and discipline scene, male chastity cages come in a variety of materials – silicone, plastic, steel, etc. – but are intended to serve the same function: to keep the penis locked away. Many are intended to make erections painful. The jury is out over whether prolonged use can cause damage to the penis, with many enthusiasts swearing to their safeness. However, users should remove them if there is any sign of possible damage.
- Advanced anal plugs. More and more men are discovering that anal plugs and other devices intended to stimulate the prostate can add a new dimension to their sex lives. Finding the device that is right for an individual can be challenging; most beginners should stick with smaller sizes, at least initially. Really thick plugs or dildos can be challenging, and those considered anal stretchers are usually best only for much advanced users. Some men may also find that those anal plugs that are “spiked” are a bit challenging to those who are just starting out and may wish to stick more to the basic models. It’s also always a good reminder that use of anal toys requires plenty of lubrication.
Whether a user of sex toys is a beginner or very advanced, he needs to takes steps to ensure his general penis health, and one excellent way toward this goal is the daily use of a top-drawer penis health oil (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin). The most respected oils are likely to contain both L-arginine and L-carnitine. The former is an amino acid that helps the body produce nitric oxide, thereby more readily enabling penile blood vessels to expand as needed. L-carnitine is a neuroprotective ingredient that can help maintain needed penis sensation, even when the penis is subjected to somewhat rough use.