It’s not referred to as a blow job because it’s a piece of cake, and some women are reluctant to perform oral sex because of the discomfort factor. This article, written by guest author and sex therapist Victoria Johnson, gives guys a women’s perspective on oral sex, as well as hints on what he can do to make it more pleasant for her.
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Oral sex is hugely pleasurable, especially for the receiver, and it can create a new level of intimacy in a physical relationship. On the other hand, for the person in the “giving” position, oral sex can become a bit of a chore. In my line of work, I often hear from women who want to please their men, but don’t always feel comfortable during the process.
Honestly, there is nothing surprising about this. The mouth is more purposefully designed to ingest smaller objects, and to chew them and swallow them within a matter of seconds; sucking and tugging on a guy’s equipment requires different muscle groups, and the mouth tends to get tired after a few minutes of this activity.
Since most guys would prefer to enjoy oral sex for much more than a few minutes, the following tips can help women to pace themselves and keep it up for longer; guys can also take these hints to heart to make the experience more pleasant for both.
1. When the jaw starts to feel the strain, the giver can take a break, using her hands, a silk scarf, or a toy to stimulate the man until the muscles have had a chance to rest; once she feels rested, she can return to the main event.
2. For the man’s part, he can offer hints about what else might feel good, so that she can continue to give him pleasure while her mouth recuperates for another round.
3. Better yet, why not take turns? If the couple agrees to alternate, then both have a chance to enjoy intense pleasure, drawing out the process for a longer time before getting to the big finish.
And guys – out of consideration, make sure to keep things clean and healthy down there. No matter how much she wants to give oral, no woman wants to put a sweaty, grimy, smelly penis in her mouth. Be sure to wash every day, and use a penis health creme (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) to ward off funky odors and keep the skin kissably soft and smooth.
Good luck!
