High on the list of things that no guy wants to admit is having a small penis. Despite the plethora of sex tips for men on all topics, dealing with a lesser endowment can be a challenge. Yet, especially for men who practice appropriate penis care, there are some sex tips that can indeed make a difference for men who lack a monster-sized appendage in their trousers.
Is it really small?
One thing to consider right away is whether a man really has a small penis. For example, for years men have been told that the average penis size when erect is 6 inches. Yet a recent study found that the actual average erect penis is just under 5.2 inches. So many men who may have cursed nature for not hitting the 6-inch mark on the ruler may in fact have been average all these years.
But there’s also a need to look at what “small” really means. If it’s simply a comparison between one man and another, then a penis that is, say, 4.5 inches may indeed appear small. However, if the criterion is whether the penis provides adequate sexual satisfaction to a partner, then size becomes less relevant. There are plenty of men with penises of 4 inches or smaller who are quite capable of bringing their partners to orgasm on a regular basis.
So for the man who feels his penis is on the modest side, here are a few sex tips to aid him in his efforts to demonstrate how manly he can be in bed.
Sex tips
Be confident. Remember, a man is not defined by his penis size, neither in life in general nor in bed. A man needs to reaffirm his good qualities so that when he is preparing to embark on a sexual romp, he feels good about himself and about what he can bring to any relationship or experience. Confidence is the best aphrodisiac- for both men and women.
Ramp up the foreplay. If a man is concerned with satisfying his partner, he needs to give proper attention to foreplay of all sorts: hugging, kissing, caressing, massaging and speaking tender words, to start. There also needs to be a focus on physical and/or oral attention to the breasts and vagina. Each of these foreplay moves should be performed with care and attention.
Choose positions carefully. A man with a small penis needs to remember that the famed G-spot in a woman is usually 2 to 3 inches inside the vagina, so a long member is not necessary. However, some positions tend to be more amenable to the modestly endowed and finding the ones that work best for an individual can take some practice. Man-on-top positions are often the preferred choice; these work best when the woman either bends her knees toward her chest or when the man lifts her legs in the air and holds them in a V-shape. However, sometimes a woman-on-top position is a better option, as it allows the woman to have greater control over which part of her vagina is receiving stimulation.
Switch positions as needed. Men of any size often find that switching positions during intercourse can prolong the amount of time they last.
Augment if needed. Using sex toys, such as a penis sheath, should also be considered, especially for men for whom sudden ejaculation can be an issue.
One final sex tip for the small penis owner: Regularly use a superior penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) to keep the organ in good health. A woman will be more appreciative of a penis that has a healthy glow, rather than one that is dry and flaky or reeks of an unpleasant odor. A crème with bacteria-fighting vitamin A will help reduce persistent odor issues, which is always a plus. One that also includes a high-end emollient like Shea butter can address the dryness that makes the penis skin scaly and unappetizing. A rod of modest proportions that is attractive to the eye gains points over a massive tool that presents an off-putting appearance.
