As has often been said before, it is not the size of the wand but the magic inside that makes all the difference. Men with what may be considered a small penis should take note of this very wise saying. Most men with a small penis who engage in responsible penis care should be able to have (and to give to their partner) ample bedtime pleasure.
Although one man’s definition of small varies from another’s, most men seem to feel that a penis that is four inches or smaller when erect is on the small side. But it should be noted that beyond a certain point size really doesn’t have to matter: skill, imagination, talent and personality are all equally as important.
With that in mind, these bedtime tips may help a man in possession of a small penis create more bedtime magic.
- Make the most of foreplay. To be honest, this is a tip that all men should remember, regardless of the size of their member. Even a woman who is clearly interested in having sex doesn’t want to go from a quick kiss to penetration with no steps in between. Spending 15 or 20 minutes on foreplay makes the woman and her female organ much more receptive to the ministrations of a penis, no matter what the size.
Some men worry that lengthy foreplay may become boring for a woman, and that they may want more variety than a man can give. If this is a concern, ask questions during the foreplay: “Does this feel good?” “What else would you like?” “Do you want me to go back to kissing your nipples?”
- Become BFFs with the clitoris. Although women enjoy intercourse, most don’t climax from penetration alone. Often direct stimulation of the clitoris is required, so paying extra attention to this area during foreplay is well advised. But here’s another hint: don’t abandon it after penetration. Depending on the position being used, a man can often sneak his hand down and continue rubbing and massaging the area; if he can’t do that himself, he may suggest that his partner do it instead.
- Get oral. Foreplay is even better when some oral sex is mixed into the equation. As with other forms of foreplay, don’t be afraid to ask for guidance. If the oral emphasis you are providing doesn’t seem to be producing any results, ask if she prefers something different from her oral partner.
- Be her boy toy with real toys. Sex toys have become more and more acceptable among partners in recent years and this can be a special benefit for the man with a small penis. For example, wearing a vibrating penis ring can be a plus on two accounts: it can aid the male in keeping his erection firm and its vibratory sensations can be especially felt by the clitoris.
In some instances, a man may want to use a penis sleeve, which he wears over his own penis and adds some extra length to the experience. Vibrators may also be employed, especially as a foreplay aid.
Whether a man has a small penis or a large one, his bedtime excursions will be more memorable if his penis is in excellent health. Consistent use of a top drawer penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) helps a man achieve this goal. Look for a crème with L-arginine, as this amino acid aids the process by which penis blood vessels become open and receptive to blood flow. A good crème will also include pantothenic acid (also called vitamin B5), which is required for cell metabolism and the proper maintenance of healthy penile tissue. Finally, a crème with vitamin A, which fights unwanted bacteria, can eliminate unpleasant penis odor. No matter the size of the penis, the proper crème can help keep it healthy.