It’s generally accepted that the famous saying “good things come in small packages” is indeed true. Unfortunately, too many people don’t believe the saying applies to a small penis, and that is truly a shame. As many experts will confirm, assuming that penis health and function are not impacted, small penis size shouldn’t be an impediment to sexual enjoyment – either for the man who possesses the small penis or for his partner(s).
What is small anyway?
Just what size indicates a small penis? As with so many things involving the penis, the subject is open to debate, but generally a man whose erect penis length is less than four inches in considered on the shorter end of the game.
However, it should be pointed out that even what might be considered a small penis often fulfills its functions perfectly well. Just as every penis is different, so is every woman’s body – and there are many women who find that penetrative sex with a small penis gives them as much pleasure as sex with a larger one. In addition, the concept of a small penis has a psychological basis, meaning that some men with perfectly normal sized penises (and in some cases, some penises that would be considered above average) may view their penis as small.
But assuming that a small penis refers to one whose size is less than four inches, what tips are there for working around what might be considered an issue?
Accept the size
The first thing to do is for a man to accept the size of his penis and to grow comfortable and proud of his equipment. Although it may not be huge, it still possesses all the attributes associated with a penis – virility, manliness, potency, handsomeness, etc. Be proud of this admirable symbol of manhood.
Define sex
It’s no secret that most men tend to orgasm quickly after initiation of penetrative sex, and that most women require more stimulation to achieve orgasm. That’s equally as true when a massive penis is involved as when a small penis is involved. As a result, men with penises of all sizes have learned to shift focus away from purely penetrative sex so that both partners can enjoy the experience. Foreplay, oral sex, manual stimulation, erotic touching of body parts other than the genitals and the use of sex toys has become common for all men.
A man with a small penis should therefore be ready to incorporate these same non-penetrative techniques into his sex play with a partner. The goal of sex should not be to force orgasm through thrusting but to allow for each partner to experience connected bliss through whatever physical means are best suited for that couple.
Work for connection
It’s also important to remember that, as enjoyable as orgasms are, couples ultimately want to use sex as a way of deepening a special connection between two people. When in a relationship, sex shouldn’t be about sex organs but should be about how those organs work together to cement and add to a bond.
Men with a small penis, a large penis or a penis of any size will feel better in bed if they are taking measures to ensure their general penis health. One important step in this regard is the daily application of a first class penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin). The best crème will include a wide range of vitamins essential for penis health, such as A, B5, C, D and E. It also is wise to select a crème with L-carnitine, an amino acid with neuroprotective properties that can help to restore lost sensation due to rough handling of the penis.
